Hi
All I wanted was an equal partner to share everything with. I knew I was in trouble early on when my STBE snapped at me that if she worked she would shoulder all the burden. Well, gee wiz……where do I find her a rose garden?
The point was she didn’t even try. Rather she assumed this man was lazy and would oppress her into slavery…….pure nonsense!
Then the private school stuff started and when we split the loaf (one home schooled and one in public) I found her expectations unrealistic and methods of getting her way manipulative and abusive.

NOT all woman who stay home are abusive and lazy, but it should be worth noting that a college educated woman with two young men in high school and school need not rescue cats all the live long day + have an affair to boot.