Hi Terry

For whatever its worth, my ex is now in therapy. In my case she made a point of telling me this at the last possible moment, so I dismissed it as just more manipulation.
If you spouse is in denial, I can assure you the chances of him “changing” is less than zero.
For years it was my fault, my issues, all of it.
If you are be assaulted, leave…….that simple. I was assaulted on several occasions, but as a man, I hung in there and we truly ashamed to even talk about it, and when I did I was called an oversensitive baby….and worse.
Abuse is abuse is abuse…….Shrink for men tries to peel away the social bias toward men in society, and the court system….

Be careful, but if you are seeking out these sites (as I and many other s have) you recognize there is a problem.

Good luck and hugs.