Sounds like there are no children. Good for you is right. My wife (I've posted before) is into animal rescue BIG TIME. Both boys are in private school and she does her frugal game as cover while she does what she “wants.”
College coming? Kick that can down the road! ……..Her family tell me “You know her. Saving the world.” Last time I looked, we are all living on earth. If we were to reverse rolls, or if i went for broke, I would be institutionalized, medicated, and given extensive ECT……What would cause a college educated man to do that????  🙂
Marriage counseling. Individual counseling….on and on. Her therapist has loaded her up with all sorts of “coping skills” to blunt my frustration and keep her on her entitlement path she calls her “truth.” Any suggestions?