Hi all

Been over a month and reality has set in with my ex. Still no real job, and the list of complaints get longer all the time.
The last conversation I had with her, she told me that my bills have gotten smaller, and her’s larger. Guess what folks, I have been saying this for years. I gave her spread sheets, control of the checkbook in hopes I’d eventually hear the nickel drop and her realize what it takes to pay for things. I guess that’s still not working out for her….. lol
To top it off, I got a call from my car insurance agent. She said that my ex called her and asked if she could stay on my policy and that I had agreed to it. Legally I’m not sure you can insure a car I don’t own for a person I am no longer related to…… So, the real story is she racked up three speeding tickets in the last year (another SURPRISE!!!!!) and as soon as my divorce went through, my insurance company could not wait to dump her into the high risk state program which is triple the normal cost. One of the speeding tickets was so bad (she was well over 15 miles over the limit, she was cited for reckless driving as well.
You see folks, she is so entitled even the rules of the road are making her life a living hell………the pattern continues.
When I confronted her with this lie, she told me: “Just go along with it and shut your mouth.”

Oh……really? As an add on, the life insurance policy the court mandated she get to cover both our boys 9I did the same) has just been ignored. Reason is her high risk status makes her life more expensive (double) to insure.

Lastly, to complete transfer of half my retirement account into her name my attorney is required to get a court order to present my broker and employer. There is a filing fee involved for both of us totaling $190. She jumped all over me and insisted it was a hardship and I should pay for it since I had to give it to her………..She is bitching about $190 to obtain a $150,000 tax free retirement package she never worked a day to contribute into.

The best part about being divorced to this woman child, is that the word “no” is now actually an entire sentence.
For you guys on the fence, just want you to know it does not seem to change even though at the last minute she broke down and admitted how difficult she made my life, etc….It was nothing but the reality that she was facing reality and given a year had done NOTHING to prepare. SURPRISE!!!!