Hi esqjeff44

You sound at peace with your decision. Our professions are stressful and require drive, focus and a very thick skin. I cannot control my wife and i can’t change her. I don’t want to, besides, who has time?
I’ve said this in several posts. If the roles were reversed we would have been tossed out long ago as loafers and moochers (or worse). In my wife's case, she does animal rescue, so if we switched our rolls i would be wearing a white jumpsuit and making pot holders at the Ha Ha Hotel years ago.
Was there a WTF moment, or did it all just fall into place one after the other? I ask because I am standing far back now and just watching and listening to her.
She is a good Mom and does all that heavy lifting, so it isn’t all bad. However, she blames me for everything that is not right in our family.

You sound very very tired. I hope you can respond and tell me more.

Regards

Ed Note: Nah, role reversal is the pipe dream of feminists everywhere.