Unresolved childhood issues? OMG! My wife’s Dad died when she was 4-5. I am 7 years older, have a great job, stable and from what I can feel, a poor replacement for her need of a strong Daddy figure in her life.
She tells me the relationship was “bad day one.” She was probably more right than wrong. I did what i could do as a human being, and because she chose wrong, I am suffering as a result of my efforts. or course it was bad day one. it was delusion on her part as opposed to illusion which is generally seen by many.
i am screwed. I love a woman who wanted to be taken care of, and because I did not live up to her childhood delusion am suffering as a result. It’s a lost cause.